The [sexual violence] in my life was in my childhood, and was discovered via therapy. My parents were informed by the therapist, and reacted by changing the school that I went to, and cutting off the violent friendship. I didn't find out why those changes had occurred until years later, when it was explained to me exactly what had transpired. I also have a friend who experienced [sexual violence] this year, and I, as well as our mutual friends reacted with shock, and support. As much as you know it happens here, or has happened to you, it's always surprising when it happens to someone you care about.
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